
What Stage Are You In?!?!
“I paused, because my first thought was to leave. It dawned on me that he was moving us from a pseudo-relationship to an emergent one. I could not believe it. He planned this moment. I was beginning to feel a little peeved, because we could have discussed this transition instead of just throwing me in the fire. It took me a few minutes to decide I would stay. I was not all that interested in moving to the chaos stage, but I knew this would give me an opportunity to see him on